Murphy's law of Wrestling Partners
The law works like this: If there are only two kids around the same size, and nobody anywhere close to their size….those two kids won't get along.
This tends to happen at the extreme ends – the smallest kids and the biggest kids.
Case in point: 12 year old boys in the 5th percentile are around 60 lbs. 12 year old boys in the 95th percentile are around 130 lbs.
Sooooo, if you have two 12 year old boys who happen to weigh about 50-55 lbs (yes, I've had them in my room)…they would represent the small side extreme.
On the other end, if you have two 12 year old boys who happen to weigh 150….you have the other end of the extreme.
Kids at those sizes are very hard to find partners for. And, way too often, don't get along with the other kid that's his size.
I recently had a youngster on one end of the extreme tell me, “I don't like my partner. I want to go with someone else."
I looked at him and said, “Look around. Do you see anyone else within 30 lbs of you? That kid is your partner. Learn to get along."
My best advice for coaches in these situations: Encourage your kids on the extremes, to introduce a buddy that is his size, to wrestling. If every kid on the extreme end would do that, you'd have 4 instead of two. Much better odds of having a partner.